If you’ve never given a blowjob before, or you’d just like to improve your technique, you’re bound to have a few questions.

While there’s no right or wrong way of doing it, this guide should answer some of those questions and help you feel more relaxed about the whole thing. And, of course, the more relaxed you feel, the more amazing your blowjob is likely to be.

Giving good head isn’t only awesome for your partner – it can be totally empowering for you too.

Get comfy

Men can take between two to ten minutes to orgasm. That doesn’t sound too long, but you still need to make sure you’re in a comfy position or leg cramps and sore knees could break your rhythm.

To get started, have your partner to sit on the edge of the bed or sofa as you kneel between their knees. If you’re kneeling on the floor, you might want to slip a pillow under your knees - and then you’re ready for action. Having him lie on his back while in between his legs also means he gets to see more.

Put on a strawberry flavoured condom

Putting on a condom is easy, but the first time doing anything can be tricky. If you’re not sure how to go about it, this can be a fun thing to do together with your partner.

Make sure the penis is fully erect before slipping the condom on. You need to leave around half an inch of extra space at the top by pinching out any extra air in the tip. As you or your partner roll the condom on the penis, smooth out any air bubbles along the way.

Using a strawberry flavoured condom can make the whole experience even better; the smell of strawberry will already be in the air, and that’s your signal to get started.

Go slow

An amazing blowjob starts with a little tease. Try exploring their body with your mouth first, gently kissing their stomach and thighs before finally letting your lips touch the tip of their penis.

Look into your partner’s eyes as you stroke their penis. The ‘look’ can be incredibly sexy – think of it as dirty talk, with your eyes.

Be hands on

Now it’s time to slowly take your partner’s penis in your mouth and enjoy the taste of strawberries, as you slide your lips up and down, working in a gentle rhythm.

Here’s a good blowjob tip for you: with your tongue and mouth already in action, you can also use your hands to increase the stimulation. The thought of taking it too deep in your mouth can be a bit scary. But holding the base of their penis with your hand and moving it up and down in time with your mouth makes it feel like you’re going deep for them – without it being uncomfortable for you. 

Add your own touch

To add a little personal touch to your routine, spend a little time focusing your attention on the underside of the penis. This is a really sensitive area and the tip of your tongue is likely to drive your partner crazy.

The head of the penis is another sensitive area, so you could try spending a little time here too. Switch between sucking, swirling your tongue around and flicking it lightly, until your partner can’t take it any more. Watch their body language and listen to their reactions so you can find what they really enjoy.

Confidence is sexy

Letting your partner know that you’re enjoying their body will give both you and your partner more confidence.

If it inspires you, you could give a few appreciative moans as you slide their penis in and out of your mouth. Look them in the eyes and let them know how much they turn you on. They will enjoy knowing that you’re every bit as excited as they are.

Hopefully, our guide has given you a few new blowjob tips you’re keen to put into action. And the thought of a strawberry flavoured condom should make the whole thing feel even more tempting.

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